Have it Your Way !

Have you ever been in a situation in which you wanted something but the odds were not to your liking, here are some tips on how get your way when talking to parents and teachers. Getting your way when talking with your parents and teachers is really simple, that is if you play your cards right. but as always, you must think about how you will approach the topic. Just keep it simple. Start off on a soft note. People tend to draw to and listen to people who are soft and moderate in choosing words when talking to people. If you start off with mocking or belittling language you will not get your way, because they would feel disrespected and left feeling discouraged. Try not to use high sounding language used to impress people, because if you do not use the words in the right way, you would just look foolish. Using random "big" words could also make your conversation lengthy, so don't do that. Instead talk natural, use the vocabulary that you are comfortable with so your point of view would be censure and sound fluent. After that you wait for a response. Usually after that response the decision made, if the decision is not to your liking you could create clever reply like , "is their anything could do to change your mind?" Usually after that, their cot off guard and then you could wait for a response and then form a conclusion to finish your voluble conversation. Then while you walk away you could throw in a complement and a "thank you". This would leave your you parent or teacher feeling happy and maybe do a little more on your part. That tactic may or may not work so you could improvise each time you use it would not be like a platitude complement.